Gender Equality

In 1997 after much thought and anguish I officially left the church I was raised in, the church I had served for my entire adult life. At times I have struggled to explain my reasons to those who didn’t understand. I should have let President Carter explain for me. He does so perfectly. I am a recovering Southern Baptist and here’s why.

Losing My Religion for Equality

by Jimmy Carter, July 15, 2009

Women and girls have been discriminated against for too long in a twisted interpretation of the word of God.

I HAVE been a practising Christian all my life and a deacon and Bible teacher for many years. My faith is a source of strength and comfort to me, as religious beliefs are to hundreds of millions of people around the world. So my decision to sever my ties with the Southern Baptist Convention, after six decades, was painful and difficult. It was, however, an unavoidable decision when the convention’s leaders, quoting a few carefully selected Bible verses and claiming that Eve was created second to Adam and was responsible for original sin, ordained that women must be “subservient” to their husbands and prohibited from serving as deacons, pastors or chaplains in the military service.

This view that women are somehow inferior to men is not restricted to one religion or belief. Women are prevented from playing a full and equal role in many faiths. Nor, tragically, does its influence stop at the walls of the church, mosque, synagogue or temple. This discrimination, unjustifiably attributed to a Higher Authority, has provided a reason or excuse for the deprivation of women’s equal rights across the world for centuries.

At its most repugnant, the belief that women must be subjugated to the wishes of men excuses slavery, violence, forced prostitution, genital mutilation and national laws that omit rape as a crime. But it also costs many millions of girls and women control over their own bodies and lives, and continues to deny them fair access to education, health, employment and influence within their own communities.

The impact of these religious beliefs touches every aspect of our lives. They help explain why in many countries boys are educated before girls; why girls are told when and whom they must marry; and why many face enormous and unacceptable risks in pregnancy and childbirth because their basic health needs are not met.

In some Islamic nations, women are restricted in their movements, punished for permitting the exposure of an arm or ankle, deprived of education, prohibited from driving a car or competing with men for a job. If a woman is raped, she is often most severely punished as the guilty party in the crime.

The same discriminatory thinking lies behind the continuing gender gap in pay and why there are still so few women in office in the West. The root of this prejudice lies deep in our histories, but its impact is felt every day. It is not women and girls alone who suffer. It damages all of us. The evidence shows that investing in women and girls delivers major benefits for society. An educated woman has healthier children. She is more likely to send them to school. She earns more and invests what she earns in her family.

It is simply self-defeating for any community to discriminate against half its population. We need to challenge these self-serving and outdated attitudes and practices – as we are seeing in Iran where women are at the forefront of the battle for democracy and freedom.

I understand, however, why many political leaders can be reluctant about stepping into this minefield. Religion, and tradition, are powerful and sensitive areas to challenge. But my fellow Elders and I, who come from many faiths and backgrounds, no longer need to worry about winning votes or avoiding controversy – and we are deeply committed to challenging injustice wherever we see it.

The Elders are an independent group of eminent global leaders, brought together by former South African president Nelson Mandela, who offer their influence and experience to support peace building, help address major causes of human suffering and promote the shared interests of humanity. We have decided to draw particular attention to the responsibility of religious and traditional leaders in ensuring equality and human rights and have recently published a statement that declares: “The justification of discrimination against women and girls on grounds of religion or tradition, as if it were prescribed by a Higher Authority, is unacceptable.”

We are calling on all leaders to challenge and change the harmful teachings and practices, no matter how ingrained, which justify discrimination against women. We ask, in particular, that leaders of all religions have the courage to acknowledge and emphasise the positive messages of dignity and equality that all the world’s major faiths share.

The carefully selected verses found in the Holy Scriptures to justify the superiority of men owe more to time and place – and the determination of male leaders to hold onto their influence – than eternal truths. Similar biblical excerpts could be found to support the approval of slavery and the timid acquiescence to oppressive rulers.

I am also familiar with vivid descriptions in the same Scriptures in which women are revered as pre-eminent leaders. During the years of the early Christian church women served as deacons, priests, bishops, apostles, teachers and prophets. It wasn’t until the fourth century that dominant Christian leaders, all men, twisted and distorted Holy Scriptures to perpetuate their ascendant positions within the religious hierarchy.

The truth is that male religious leaders have had – and still have – an option to interpret holy teachings either to exalt or subjugate women. They have, for their own selfish ends, overwhelmingly chosen the latter. Their continuing choice provides the foundation or justification for much of the pervasive persecution and abuse of women throughout the world. This is in clear violation not just of the Universal Declaration of Human Rights but also the teachings of Jesus Christ, the Apostle Paul, Moses and the prophets, Muhammad, and founders of other great religions – all of whom have called for proper and equitable treatment of all the children of God. It is time we had the courage to challenge these views.


Jimmy Carter was president of the United States from 1977 to 1981.


“Gender equality is more than a goal in itself. It is a precondition for meeting the challenge of reducing poverty, promoting sustainable development and building good governance.” Kofi Annan


9 thoughts on “Gender Equality

  1. Amen and Praise the Lord, Sue!! What you did (and what he said) validated women. Women have always been labeled the “weaker sex”. As a woman who experienced childbirth, I can say that pain proved that we are strong, capable of whatever may happen, a willingness to do whatever is needed. Women have “labored behind the scenes forever, never getting credit, in science, nature, technology, politics, and all other fields. They have worked quietly, efficiently, despite not being paid equally, despite not being exalted. Thank you for sharing this, and including Jimmy Carter’s piece. He reminds me of us (women) in that he quietly went about his work and beliefs, yet never received the praise he so richly deserved. Into his 90s, he lives his religion. Even with cancer, he doesn’t look for a way out.
    Some of the strongest people I know are women, but the bigger point is, all people are capable, all can make a difference, and it is up to every individual to let their light shine.

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  2. I totally agree. Sadly I remain a member of the church that started this view. Hopefully someday things will change. That is why I stay—trying to influence this change from within.

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  3. Sounds like the patriarchy is well and truly in force in that denomination. I think it’s a form of abuse and predisposes to abuse and the justification of abuse. Well said you and Jimmy.

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  4. I had read that about Jimmy Carter and was once again amazed at the person he is. I wonder how he was ever able to be elected President. It seems the President must have a different character these days.

    Back in The 1990’s when I was trying to find a new church, I attended St. Matthews Baptist Church and was surprised to see not only women wearing slacks, but women serving as deacons. I asked at my Mother’s and Others support group (for family members who have someone dealing with AIDS) whether there was a Baptist Church in Louisivlle who were welcoming to people with AIDS. I was told to try Highland Baptist Church and I have been there since. It is the most welcoming Baptist Church I have ever attended. One of our assistant pastors recently did her recent doctorate theseis on Traumatizing Theology. Interesting ideas.

    When I was teaching, I attended a workshop that teachers were offered on assertiveness and the topic of the difference between assertiveness and aggressiveness were discussed. I remember thinking that not being assertive was something that I was taught in church. It was always to be submissive (or that is how I received it) and that is a hard thing to change.

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  5. Lula, I don’t think it was your perception. It is taught in Southern Baptist churches that women are to be submissive. The pain of that indoctrination is hard to recover from and I regret that I raised my daughters in that church environment.


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